Private schools, times a changing?

Private schools, times a changing?

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AstonZagato

11,605 posts

197 months

Louis Balfour said:
cheesejunkie said:
Reading this thread with interest but I hesitated to comment as I seem to always end up disagreeing with someone.

But doing the best for your kids is universal. The system sucks but I’d not send my kids to a second class school out of some perverted point of principal.
I have friends who are directors at the local, uber left-wing, city council. They send their children to private schools.

Obviously their political sensibilities don't impact THAT much on their choices, where their children and concerned.
My father was a council administrator, running education services. He sent both me and my brother to private secondary schools. He had two main reasons:
  1. All the heads effectively reported to him. He didn't want any conflicts of interest, accusations of favouritism or his sons being used as pawns in any discussions.
  2. He didn't get give the resources he asked for by the (Labour) council.
He was formally censured in council meetings and was denied a promotion.

Later, one of the Labour councillors came and asked him for recommendations on private schools for her children.

AstonZagato

11,605 posts

197 months

RammyMP said:
Louis Balfour said:
AstonZagato said:
I only went as I got a scholarship.
Scholarships aren't what they were, at our school. There is no financial incentive at all, the money goes to pay for places for bright children who cannot afford the fees.
My lad got a ‘scholarship’ in maths a couple of years ago, I thought nice one, fee reduction! No such luck, it was just a certificate to say he’d done well.
Interesting. Mine (back in the 70's) was a full (but means-tested) academic scholarship and paid the vast majority of the fees. Without it, the family would have struggled. I won another in the sixth form that was also useful - I think it was another 10% off fees (which at the time was less existential for my parents).

Tom8

951 posts

141 months

I always like seeing those on the left using private schools and private healthcare. Proves the concept and also proves their hypocrisy.

What is sad is that the spiteful Blair government scrapped the assisted place scheme which was a great example of opportunity. We had some amazingly intelligent kids come to my school who were given the opportunity to excel and not get swallowed up in the mediocrity of a comp.

That would be the first thing I would bring back. Many schools including mine do private sponsorship of children like this.

Harry Flashman

17,941 posts

229 months

Part of this is, weirdly, cost.

We have an excellent state primary. But as we both work, we would have to pay for pre and after school care (my kids get breakfast and after school care).

Get to secondary, and add tutors into the mix as our secondary state schools here are a disaster.

OK, the cost of all of this would still be less than the fees, but the delta is less than zero spend vs school fees. And add the cost/admin or employing a full time nanny, finding a new one when they move on, finding tutors etc. I need our lives with as few complications as possible. Happy to pay for that, within our means.

The state school system basically assumes someone stays at home to deal with the kids until a certain age. As does state early years childcare.

Governments moaning about people being on benefits/not paying their tax does is pointless until this is addressed. It is virtually impossible for two parents to work full time with the current system. We manage it as we both have good jobs. If one of earned less than a quite high sum compared to the average wage, it wouldn't be worth it.

Tom8

951 posts

141 months

Harry Flashman said:
Part of this is, weirdly, cost.

We have an excellent state primary. But as we both work, we would have to pay for pre and after school care (my kids get breakfast and after school care).

Get to secondary, and add tutors into the mix as our secondary state schools here are a disaster.

OK, the cost of all of this would still be less than the fees, but the delta is less than zero spend vs school fees. And add the cost/admin or employing a full time nanny, finding a new one when they move on, finding tutors etc. I need our lives with as few complications as possible. Happy to pay for that, within our means.

The state school system basically assumes someone stays at home to deal with the kids until a certain age. As does state early years childcare.

Governments moaning about people being on benefits/not paying their tax does is pointless until this is addressed. It is virtually impossible for two parents to work full time with the current system. We manage it as we both have good jobs. If one of earned less than a quite high sum compared to the average wage, it wouldn't be worth it.
Very true, state schools seem to only do part time hours. No wonder kids end up hanging around, getting bored then causing trouble.

Countdown

36,396 posts

183 months

cheesejunkie said:
Reading this thread with interest but I hesitated to comment as I seem to always end up disagreeing with someone.

I’m grammar school educated. I’m successful by some people’s metrics in life due to having had teachers that encouraged me. I know for a fact that friends at secondarys didn’t get pushed to the same degree. I also know my school had no time for the less academically able. Some schools are better than others, that’s just a fact of life, but not all schools suit all people. Whether access should be based on your parent’s wallet is a whole different question. But doing the best for your kids is universal. The system sucks but I’d not send my kids to a second class school out of some perverted point of principal.
Almost exactly the same background here. However i don't have any issue with people using private education or private healthcare or indeed private anything. We were fortunate that my kids also went to the same Grammar school but we also have at least 2 good State schools near us if they hadn't passed the 11+.

AstonZagato

11,605 posts

197 months

cheesejunkie said:
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The easiest way to bring the level up on state schools is to ensure the wealthy have to use them. See also health care and any other two tier system you care to mention. Blaming parents is a dead end road.
Well, yes and no. I made the same point myself some time ago. Wealthy parents have little incentive to see state education improve.

However, governments are rarely good at delivering stuff. Pretty much everything they do performs poorly, is riddled with inefficiency, delivers poor vfm, has a demoralised workforce. Without a private sector benchmark, it becomes difficult to see how badly something is failing.

GiantCardboardPlato

1,326 posts

8 months

Tom8 said:
Very true, state schools seem to only do part time hours. No wonder kids end up hanging around, getting bored then causing trouble.
it's because children don't need/do well being in school, in formal classroom environment, for a full working day, duh. the hours are designed to suit the goal - educate children - not to support childcare needs.

the more duties that have been transferred into schools - besides core education - like 'childcare', or providing breakfast, the less able the institution is to focus on its core role.

okgo

Original Poster:

35,253 posts

185 months

The hours of schools I’ve visited so far haven’t been much different to state.

Louis Balfour

24,091 posts

209 months

AstonZagato said:
My father was a council administrator, running education services. He sent both me and my brother to private secondary schools. He had two main reasons:
  1. All the heads effectively reported to him. He didn't want any conflicts of interest, accusations of favouritism or his sons being used as pawns in any discussions.
  2. He didn't get give the resources he asked for by the (Labour) council.
He was formally censured in council meetings and was denied a promotion.

Later, one of the Labour councillors came and asked him for recommendations on private schools for her children.
Champagne swilling hypocrite, then.

ooid

3,630 posts

87 months

okgo said:
The hours of schools I’ve visited so far haven’t been much different to state.
Similar hours (though they have more after school activities), with smaller groups learning becomes more effective. Example, junior year 1, but if you consider the cohort size (number of students) and some of the subjects they start to learn, it really makes a big difference. Imagine a year 1, started to learn basic arithmetic, geometry or statistics in much smaller group with targeted focus from tutors and less distraction. Not to mention, the homework checks and progress update is much more efficient in smaller groups, unlike big groups in comp, they might just get lost.Not to mention if there are 1-2 students making a disruption in that big group, which is totally normal but that's where "average" delivery becomes a fallacy.

JimmyConwayNW

2,815 posts

112 months

ooid said:
Similar hours (though they have more after school activities), with smaller groups learning becomes more effective. Example, junior year 1, but if you consider the cohort size (number of students) and some of the subjects they start to learn, it really makes a big difference. Imagine a year 1, started to learn basic arithmetic, geometry or statistics in much smaller group with targeted focus from tutors and less distraction. Not to mention, the homework checks and progress update is much more efficient in smaller groups, unlike big groups in comp, they might just get lost.Not to mention if there are 1-2 students making a disruption in that big group, which is totally normal but that's where "average" delivery becomes a fallacy.

I think its so easy in state school for a middle of the pack kid to get lost in the noise. Couldn't agree more. I think private with smaller classes should lead to far more accountability and a bit less area to hide when not doing homework etc.


chemistry

1,807 posts

96 months

cheesejunkie said:
The easiest way to bring the level up on state schools is to ensure the wealthy have to use them. See also health care and any other two tier system you care to mention. Blaming parents is a dead end road.
That might have some effect, but it would be marginal.

You'd still get good/bad schools in different catchment areas, with house prices in the good areas climbing ever higher, so the wealthy parents would only end up improving the schools their kids went to. Of course you could choose to distribute school places not based on catchment areas - randomly assigning school places across a much wider area rather than sending kids to their nearest school - but that's hardly very environmentally friendly and I suspect would lead to a massive increase in 'home schooling' i.e. wealthy parents paying for private tutors.

Overall, these utopias are impossible to engineer* and wealthy parents are going to confer advantage to their offspring whatever system is in place, whether that is by house prices around the best schools, use of tutors, having more books/resources in the house, etc.

Personally I think abolishing private schools and/or discriminating against pupils from private school is crazy. That said, I don't think most private schools deserve their charitable status and wouldn't object hugely if that were removed. However, one then has to accept that will be the end of scholarships for kids who wouldn't otherwise be able to go there, no more use of their facilities by state school pupils, etc.

*I lived in the USA (St. Louis) in the early 90s and there was a programme/trial there (St. Louis) to try to integrate kids from the best state schools with kids from the worst, the theory being that the kids from the good schools would have a positive effect on the underperforming schools they were forced to attend, whilst troubled kids from under performing schools would benefit from what they learned (in the general sense) from time at a 'good' school, then bring that back with them. In practice all that happened was that (in part due to pressure from parents) the 'good' schools sent their 'worst' kids to the 'bad' schools (damage limitation) whilst the 'bad' schools sent their brightest and best (who they thought would benefit most from the opportunity) to the good schools. So overall, the good schools just got better and the bad schools got worse.



mikey_b

1,120 posts

32 months

Countdown said:
Almost exactly the same background here. However i don't have any issue with people using private education or private healthcare or indeed private anything. We were fortunate that my kids also went to the same Grammar school but we also have at least 2 good State schools near us if they hadn't passed the 11+.
Where I am (Kent), the grammar schools *are* state schools. My eldest is starting at one in September - and whilst it is selective entry based on 11+ results, there are no school fees. Do you mean Grammar vs Comprehensive?

Luke.

10,567 posts

237 months

mikey_b said:
Where I am (Kent), the grammar schools *are* state schools. My eldest is starting at one in September - and whilst it is selective entry based on 11+ results, there are no school fees. Do you mean Grammar vs Comprehensive?
Where's your eldest starting? My son started at Tunbridge Wells Boys Grammar in September and loves it. Had him down for Sutton Valance too, but so glad we didn't have to go the private route.

DKL

4,271 posts

209 months

Tuesday
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Anyone have kids privately in west wilts?
Where we are currently has provision for girls (at a price mind) but not really boys. There's a place towards Bath but that is a bit of a trek really.

gareth h

3,141 posts

217 months

Tuesday
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DKL said:
Anyone have kids privately in west wilts?
Where we are currently has provision for girls (at a price mind) but not really boys. There's a place towards Bath but that is a bit of a trek really.
Mine went to Dauntseys outside Devizes, we were very please with it.

ClaphamGT3

10,587 posts

230 months

Tuesday
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DKL said:
Anyone have kids privately in west wilts?
Where we are currently has provision for girls (at a price mind) but not really boys. There's a place towards Bath but that is a bit of a trek really.
Warminster?

dalzo

1,412 posts

123 months

Wednesday
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Recently worked in a private boarding school and it really opened up my eyes to the difference between state and private.

The education was obviously better but the opportunity for different after school activities was amazing. The grounds and building was absolutely stunning too so was a fantastic place to live and learn.

Interesting to note though that while talking to a director he said he had a lot of students that only came for one term then moved back to state school and it was only so they could have the school on their C.V. Even though these kids might be not be very bright they’re parents having money ensures they have more opportunities which I thought was quite sad.

purplepolarbear

458 posts

161 months

Wednesday
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Would there be interest in the following type of private school:

Fees at a level of about what the state pays (class sizes and levels of other equipment would obviously be similar to state schools as there is a similar amount of money).
Selective (maybe for the top 50%) and strict on discipline, expelling those that disrupt others.

The (low) fees would mean that only parents with some money and keen to support their children progressing would go to the school (those from problem families would be excluded). Parents on slightly above average incomes could send their children.

This would all mean children wouldn't be brought down by others less keen or able to learn (but there may be problems with the effect on society in general).